The art of letting go

As human beings, we are asked to let go over and over again throughout the course of our lives.

Let go of our attachments to desired outcomes, or how we thought things were “supposed to” go.

Let go of places and spaces, cities and homes.

Let go of people we love and relationships that shaped us but have run their course.

Let go of our identities, who we thought we were.

Sure, we have a choice here. You don't have to let go of any of these things. But gripping creates energetic stagnation.

When you hold onto something longer than you are meant to, you are blocking the flow of new energy that wants to come to you.

I always like to use the closet metaphor with my clients — if you don't purge your clothes every once in a while, then there's no room for any new outfits. There's no space to explore new styles. You'd still have all of your clothes from when you were 19, and a completely different person than you are now. (Imagine if still wore everything you were wearing in 2003…)

Letting go of the old creates space for the new.

What becomes uncomfortable about this, is that the new does not always come in right away. Often there is a bit of empty, void space between what was and what will be.

Our minds, our psyches, our conditioning, hate that.

But, things take the time they take.

Letting go is a trust fall. 

You have to release your grip and know that it will all make sense somewhere down the line. It will all fall into place, even if your soul is asking you to let go of something that your mind is afraid to.

Everything that you are being asked to let go of will be worth it.

It is worth it because letting go means you are creating space for new energy to come in. Energy that is more aligned with who you are in present time. Energy that can bring you more of what you desire.

So, as this year comes to a close, we are often prompted to look ahead — what do you want to call in? What do you want to have in the new year?

And of course, this is important!

But what I'd like to ask you instead is, what would you like to let go of?

What is ready to leave your life in order to create space for what's next?

How can you make room for the things that you desire?

What patterns or beliefs are preventing you from having the life you want?

What places or spaces or people are no longer serving your growth and your peace?

What no longer feels like YOU?

This is your life. The way you want to live it matters. And you have the power to create meaningful change in the way you experience your world.

If, upon sitting with these reflections, you find that you could use some support with these changes, I'm here for you.

Right now, there are two ways to work with me in 2023:

BECOMING is my transformational 4-month one-on-one container where we dive deep into soul alignment, shadow work, and energy healing in order to create powerful and lasting change in your life. This program will support you to deepen your self-trust, your connection to your own knowing, and your ability to commit to and create your dreams.

Intuitive Sessions are an opportunity to work with me in a single session (or for a container of 3 sessions), where I will work with you exclusively in the psychic healing space. During these sessions I can read the energy of anything that feels stuck in your life, so that you can find your answers and move forward with far more clarity, understanding, and connection to your own power. 

Thank you for being here with me, and thank you for loving yourself enough to be on this journey of growth. I see you, I honor you, and I believe in you so very much.

Happy New Year, may the letting go come with ease, and may you look ahead to the future with trust.